An adult content creator has revealed the one thing she will never do and one of the misconceptions about one of her favorite activities.
Tru Kait joined the sex industry in 2019 while working a 9 to 5 in marketing and sales, as well as hustling as a personal trainer on the weekends.
She started by doing fitness photo shoots, which then transitioned into boudoir photo shoots before OnlyFans was eventually brought up.
At first, it was just nudity where she didn’t show her face. Eventually, she started filming sex scenes and exploring her own sexuality as her popularity on the platform grew.
She was invited to a sex party in America, where she’s based, and decided to go.
“I was just more open to new experiences and I thought why not,” she told news.com.au.
“Worst case, I could just leave early. But I actually ended up having a really good time at my first party. And I realize that it’s not what people usually think it is.”
She said people often think these kinds of parties have energy akin to the 1999 film Eyes Wide Shut, but in most cases, it’s a lot more relaxed with people sitting and talking as tension builds.
For her, she said she enjoyed the freedom that the parties allowed.
“I love that you can just show up as yourself. You can be totally honest about what you’re into, and there’s no judgment. I think that everyone is kind of on the same page,” she said.
“We’re all there to explore and connect, and most importantly feel safe while doing it. And I also love how open the conversations are. People talk about their boundaries and they express their desires in such a clear way, which I feel doesn’t happen enough in everyday life.”
She said at the parties she’s attended there is a consent check-in before anything sexual happens.
This includes discussion of your dynamic and what you’re comfortable with. She said if someone is drunk, they are automatically ruled out of partaking in the evening.
She said for her own boundaries, it varies. If she brings a partner she may only want to partake in sexual acts with them. Sometimes, she may want to swing or only sleep with women.
And, while in her experience she’s always had a relatively positive experience, there have been moments that have given her pause.
“I’ve been to parties where the vibe just feels off. Like maybe there’s too many new people or people aren’t really respecting other people’s space,” she said.
“So for me, I’m not afraid to leave or just sit something out like if I don’t feel good about it. I feel like you have to be able to check in with yourself and know when something’s not for you.”
Sex parties, and the ones that adult workers attend in cities like Dubai, have been a controversial topic following Maria Kovalchuk being found on the side of the road 10 days after she allegedly attended a hotel party.
Kovalchuk was found bloodied and with several horrific injuries, including a broken spine and limbs. She also reportedly couldn’t speak and needed four surgeries to save her life.
Her discovery has led to growing fears that she was the victim of a sex slave plot, where women are paid a lot of money to participate in sex acts.
Kait told news.com.au she wasn’t “in the know” about these parties but based on what she’d read, she wouldn’t go near them.
“From what I read… I think that they’re dangerous and pretty dehumanizing to women, she said.
“The parties that I’ve been to are more about mutual respect, clear boundaries, and consensual exploration. I wouldn’t really compare the two. I think they’re worlds apart.”
She said for anyone wanting to attend sex parties in their local area that are safe and consensual, the most important thing to do is research.
She also said it’s a good idea to bring someone along who you trust, and never be afraid to advocate for your boundaries and sexual health.
She said every party is different and she can only speak about her own experiences.
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