Talk about a chase.
A recent — rather controversial — hot topic in today’s dating world has taken the internet by storm: women who openly say they “hate men” might actually be the best partners to date.
According to social media, men could benefit greatly from dating women who express discontent with the opposite sex — but it’s not as controversial as you might think.
TikTok user James White (@jameslwhitee) stirred the pot with a viral video in which he elaborated on this theory — believing women who say they dislike men could be the most loyal, loving partners out there.
“Okay, so if you’re a guy who can find a girl who hates all men, but! But, but, but likes you? You’re set. You are literally set for life,” James explained, explaining that many men misinterpret these women’s stance.
He claims that instead of seeing their expressed disdain for men as a negative, he believes it’s basically a filter.
“All these girls who hate all men,” he added, “they’re gonna find one man that they love, that they want to take care of, that they cherish, that they wanna be super kind to, super sweet, everything like that.”
If a woman who’s skeptical of men as a whole chooses to let you in, then supposedly she’s serious about you.
In a separate video, TikTokker @tootsietat added that women who loudly criticize men could be searching for the rare, “not all men” type of guy.
Instead of just talking about the flaws of men in general, these women want to see actual proof of a man embodying the qualities that make him stand apart from the negative stereotypes.
In a world where talk is often cheap, as the saying goes, actions speak louder than words — a sentiment that women have been shown to appreciate more than men.
The dynamic described here may seem flipped, but it is rooted in trust and validation. Women who have experienced disappointment or hurt from men might adopt a “tough exterior” to protect themselves emotionally.
However, if a man can break through that wall, it’s a testament to his character — and it creates a deeper bond of loyalty and trust.
By dating a woman who has high standards and deep skepticism, men are forced to win them over by proving their emotional intelligence and commitment.
This dynamic can supposedly lead to stronger, more meaningful relationships, where both partners feel respected, understood and valued.
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