She endows them with confidence.
A porn star who is inundated with messages from men insecure over their size has revealed what she says to reassure one-inch worriers.
“They shouldn’t feel ashamed about something they can’t control,” Madelynn May told Jam Press of her advice to those with tiny tallywackers.
The Las Vegas-based entertainer says she receives at least “100 messages every day from men” who feel like they don’t measure up in the manhood department. In accordance, May, who makes over $1.8 million per year from her porn career, has embarked on a mission to spread “penis positivity” among those who feel like they’re losing the battle of the bulge.
Her first word of advice? Don’t compare your anatomy with what you see on the screen.
“The only representation men really see is through pornography, where, of course, all the guys are huge, because it’s entertainment,” explained May, who boasts over 660,000 followers on Instagram. “But that’s not real.”
The skin flick star believes it’s not about the size of one’s willy but how they wield it, explaining, “take it from a pornstar who has filmed sex scenes with men of all sizes, from four inches to 14 – they all feel good.”
It’s not just the phallically lacking that are insecure about their size, either.
“I’ve seen male pornstars with huge penises worry about being ‘too big,’” she explained. “Some of them will photograph their penis to make it look smaller because they are concerned that no one will want to have sex with them.”
Sometimes, the sexually self-conscious will even send May pictures of their Johnson, after which she’ll usually give them some encouraging words to help them “feel good.”
“Usually, I’ll say that they have a pretty penis or answer questions if there’s anything in particular that they want to know,” said the psychological fluffer, who’s worked in adult entertainment for five years. “Some guys, who are in relationships or dating, worry about pleasing their partner, so I might give some tips as well. Every penis deserves attention.”
May feels it’s particularly important to “stand up” for the not-so-well-endowed in a world where body image campaigns are mostly geared towards women.
“I’ve realized how big an issue this is and how insecure a lot of guys are – and I wish they didn’t feel that way about themselves,” May declared. “Body positivity goes for all genders.”
She added, “We always hear about women being told to love themselves no matter what, but men deserve that message too.”
Spreading body confidence has been a long-time goal for May, who initially started stripping to make ends meet. At one point, the Nevadan was so broke that she relied on food stamps and lived in her parents’ basement.
Now, May rakes in over 150,000 per month on OnlyFans and owns two homes and several cars.
However, while the adult entertainer says she enjoys the “financial freedom,” she also likes helping “people see their worth beyond their bodies.”
“It’s about changing the narrative and reminding people that self-worth comes from who you are – not a measurement,” May said.
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