Most fur parents foresee that welcoming a new baby is a huge adjustment for everyone, including four-legged family members.
Luckily, there’s people like dog trainer Shir, who is passionate about helping pet owners create safe, harmonious homes. Especially when children enter the mix.
She’s now warned that one of the most overlooked dangers in a family home, is when the dog gets kisses and the toddler is taking notes.
“NEVER do this with your dog in front of your human child”
“Maybe your dog was your first child before your tiny human was born,” Shir said in an Instagram post.
But Shir warns there’s one act you should absolutely avoid when little watchful eyes are nearby.
In a bid to raise awareness, she shared an Instagram video showing an affectionate moment with her dog, kissing around his ears, snout, and cheeks.
But the caption couldn’t be clearer: “NEVER do this with your dog in front of your human child.
“He always got smooches from you every single day. You do it without even thinking.
“But now, your human child is watching everything you do. Children mirror what their grown-ups do it’s part of how they learn.”
“Your child is watching… ready to copy you”
She uses relatable examples: like mums applying makeup only to have their toddler raid the drawer later, or dads letting out a dramatic “Ahhh!” after their first sip of coffee, quickly mimicked by their little one and their sippy cup.
“When you engage with your dog, your child is watching, absorbing, learning and ready to copy you,” she explains.
While your dog might tolerate you getting up in their grill with smooches and “who’s a good puppy” affirmations, Shir warns your child’s affection might not be as well received.
“Your child kissing him in his face is dangerous and can be seen as a threat, which can cause scary and dangerous consequences,” Shir explained.
Her message is simple: if you have dogs and young children at home, make sure every interaction your child sees is one that’s safe for them to imitate.
This isn’t about fear-mongering or creating distance between your child and your pet. It’s about setting safe, healthy boundaries for both.
Because what’s cute for you might be a canine catastrophe for the kids.
Raising Children Australia recommends never leaving your child unattended around the family pet. Separate dogs and children if you can’t supervise them.
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